Blind date: ‘We stuffed some awkward silences with small speak, which I hate’

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Adeena on Tomi

What had been you hoping for?
Somebody who shares my love for Elizabethan structure, countryside and rhubarb crumble. It was very particular – there was no manner he may dwell as much as my expectations!

First impressions?
Very tall.

What did you discuss?
Politics. Regulation. ESG. And extra politics. (good factor we each prefer it). The newest e-book I learn. How we’re each followers of Blind Date – he stated if this didn’t work out, the subsequent step must be Love Island.

Any awkward moments?
We stuffed some awkward silences with small speak (which I hate).

Good desk manners?
I’d say so. He put his serviette on his lap. Most individuals I’ve been on dates with don’t do this and it bothers me. However he didn’t anticipate me to eat or drink first.

Smartest thing about Tomi?
He stated he’s a cautious driver and I believe that’s an essential attribute.

Would you introduce Tomi to your mates?
No, they’d not get alongside.

Describe Tomi in three phrases.
Considerate. Attentive. Calm.

What do you assume Tomi fabricated from you?
On the finish of the date he stated, “Please be good within the assessment,” so I don’t assume he was notably keen on me.

Did you go on someplace?
The tube! He doesn’t know London properly so thought we had been entering into the identical path. I’ll have been a bit abrupt.

And … did you kiss?
I simply gave a aspect hug to be well mannered.

When you may change one factor in regards to the night what would it not be?
Perhaps a distinct restaurant – he stated he likes cooking at dwelling and isn’t conversant in Italian meals. He additionally stated in the beginning that he wouldn’t go on a primary date at a restaurant once more.

Marks out of 10?
5.

Would you meet once more?
No. I’m fairly busy with work and we didn’t have something in widespread to do collectively.


Tomi on Adeena

What had been you hoping for?
To satisfy somebody like-minded with comparable passions and to have an excellent dialog.

First impressions?
Adeena was very properly dressed. She was a bit shy however appeared like a really good-hearted particular person.

What did you discuss?
I believed we shared a number of comparable pursuits. We chatted about our respective household backgrounds, our cultures and our shared curiosity in books. We now have an analogous style in music and in addition talked about our ardour for politics and our work.

Any awkward moments?
Simply a few silent moments, so not too dangerous.
Good desk manners?
Superb.

Smartest thing about Adeena?
Eye contact.

Would you introduce Adeena to your mates?
Sure.

Describe Adeena in three phrases.
Diligent, good, devoted.

What do you assume Adeena fabricated from you?
She perhaps considered me as fairly sincere, calm and pushed. I believe we’re each fairly reserved however naturally fairly humble.

Did you go on someplace?
No.
And … did you kiss?
No.

When you may change one factor in regards to the night what would it not be?
To sit down away from the window. My meals obtained chilly rapidly.

Marks out of 10?
7.

Would you meet once more?
Sure, however at a distinct location.

Tomi and Adeena ate at Pastaio, London W1.

Fancy a blind date? E mail blind.date@theguardian.com

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