Blind date: ‘We crammed some awkward silences with small discuss, which I hate’

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Adeena on Tomi

What had been you hoping for?
Somebody who shares my love for Elizabethan structure, countryside and rhubarb crumble. It was very particular – there was no means he might reside as much as my expectations!

First impressions?
Very tall.

What did you discuss?
Politics. Regulation. ESG. And extra politics. (good factor we each prefer it). The latest guide I learn. How we’re each followers of Blind Date – he mentioned if this didn’t work out, the subsequent step must be Love Island.

Any awkward moments?
We crammed some awkward silences with small discuss (which I hate).

Good desk manners?
I’d say so. He put his serviette on his lap. Most individuals I’ve been on dates with don’t try this and it bothers me. However he didn’t look forward to me to eat or drink first.

Smartest thing about Tomi?
He mentioned he’s a cautious driver and I believe that’s an necessary attribute.

Would you introduce Tomi to your mates?
No, they might not get alongside.

Describe Tomi in three phrases.
Considerate. Attentive. Calm.

What do you assume Tomi manufactured from you?
On the finish of the date he mentioned, “Please be good within the assessment,” so I don’t assume he was notably keen on me.

Did you go on someplace?
The tube! He doesn’t know London properly so thought we had been getting in the identical course. I could have been a bit abrupt.

And … did you kiss?
I simply gave a aspect hug to be well mannered.

When you might change one factor in regards to the night what would it not be?
Perhaps a unique restaurant – he mentioned he likes cooking at house and isn’t conversant in Italian meals. He additionally mentioned at the start that he wouldn’t go on a primary date at a restaurant once more.

Marks out of 10?
5.

Would you meet once more?
No. I’m fairly busy with work and we didn’t have something in frequent to do collectively.


Tomi on Adeena

What had been you hoping for?
To fulfill somebody like-minded with related passions and to have a great dialog.

First impressions?
Adeena was very properly dressed. She was a bit shy however appeared like a really good-hearted individual.

What did you discuss?
I believed we shared a number of related pursuits. We chatted about our respective household backgrounds, our cultures and our shared curiosity in books. We now have an analogous style in music and in addition talked about our ardour for politics and our work.

Any awkward moments?
Simply a few silent moments, so not too dangerous.
Good desk manners?
Excellent.

Smartest thing about Adeena?
Eye contact.

Would you introduce Adeena to your mates?
Sure.

Describe Adeena in three phrases.
Diligent, good, devoted.

What do you assume Adeena manufactured from you?
She possibly considered me as fairly sincere, calm and pushed. I believe we’re each somewhat reserved however naturally fairly humble.

Did you go on someplace?
No.
And … did you kiss?
No.

When you might change one factor in regards to the night what would it not be?
To take a seat away from the window. My meals obtained chilly shortly.

Marks out of 10?
7.

Would you meet once more?
Sure, however at a unique location.

Tomi and Adeena ate at Pastaio, London W1.

Fancy a blind date? Electronic mail blind.date@theguardian.com

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